Water Kefir: Probiotics that Taste Like Fruity Soda

100_3775I had never heard of water kefir until Christmas of 2012. My sister-in-law introduced me to it, and it has become a much-loved staple in our house.

Water kefir is a probiotic drink. Basically, fermented sugar water. What’s so great about probiotics? According to the Harvard Medical School Family Health Guide, “clinical studies have established that probiotic therapy can help treat several gastrointestinal ills, delay the development of allergies in children, and treat and prevent vaginal and urinary infections in women. …Gut-dwelling bacteria keep pathogens (harmful microorganisms) in check, aid digestion and nutrient absorption, and contribute to immune function.”

Water kefir is a tasty way to add probiotics to your diet. And it’s even cheap to make. Way less expensive than yogurt or wine and with only a tiny fraction of alcohol (usually significantly less than 1% – source). It’s also dairy-free, so it’s great for those who are lactose-intolerant or allergic to milk.

During the 48-hour fermentation process, about 80% of the sugar gets consumed by the kefir “grains” (a mix of bacteria and yeasts), leaving only about 20% of the sugar in the final product in the form of straight fructose. (Source)

100_3770So how do you make water kefir? You just need water kefir grains, water, a brewing vessel (i.e. glass jar), a container or individual bottles for your finished product, and sugar. For detailed instructions, click here. Basically, though, you put sugar water and your kefir grains in a jar and let it sit on your counter for 48 hours. Then you strain off the water into another container or individual drinking bottles and let it sit for another 24 hours to build up natural carbonation. You can add flavorings either at the beginning or for the second 24-hour process, depending on the flavoring. (You don’t want to damage your kefir grains.) My husband and I love adding lime juice for the second 24-hour process. Tastes like a sparkling limeade.

I got my water kefir grains from my sister-in-law. If you’re in Nashville and would like some grains, just let me know and I can hook you up. (They multiply, so you’ll have extras to give away.) Otherwise, you can purchase them online from stores like Amazon or specialty sites. I bought my 2-liter brewing vessel and some 17-ounce drinking bottles at The Container Store. I use grolsch/wire-top/hermetic/EZ-cap bottles (they go by many names) to maintain the natural carbonation.

There are tons of different flavoring options, but I haven’t tried too many of them. I tried adding vanilla extract to attempt a cream soda version, but I couldn’t get the vanilla amount to be strong enough to really taste like cream soda without making it too alcohol-flavored. After all, vanilla extract is vanilla bean in alcohol (plus sugar). Lemon/ginger/raisin is good, and so is molasses. We just keep going back to lemon or lime, though, because we like them so much. Especially lime.

Have you tried water kefir? Got a favorite flavoring?

Popsicles for Breakfast? Sure!

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I made some homemade popsicles using only  homemade yogurt and frozen fruit, and my kids love them. They’ve been asking for them at breakfast. Why not? It’s yogurt with fruit. Typical healthy breakfast fare. And it makes breakfast seem like a treat. Score!

What you need:

  • blender (a food processor might work, but I’ve never tried)
  • popsicle molds (or even an ice cube tray with plastic wrap and toothpicks)
  • plain yogurt (homemade or store-bought)
  • fruit (berries, bananas with or without some cocoa powder, apricots, peaches, etc)

Put yogurt and fruit into the blender and puree til smooth. How much you need depends on the size of your popsicle molds, so you’re just going to have to guess. 100_3706

Pour puree into popsicle molds and freeze. To release popsicles from mold, run some water over the outside of the mold. Voila!

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If you’re using an ice cube tray instead of popsicle molds, pour the puree into the ice cube tray. Cover the tray with plastic wrap and poke a toothpick through the plastic wrap into each cube to act as the stick for the mini popsicle. Freeze. Carefully remove plastic wrap and twist ice cube tray to release the popsicle cubes.

Do you have a fun idea for meals? Leave me a comment!

My Postpartum Enemy: Abdominal Split (Diastasis Resti)

I really wanted to wait to write this post until I had a nice “after” picture to show my success–a picture with a nice flat stomach complete with six-pack. However, now I’m 18 weeks pregnant with baby #3, so that won’t be happening anytime soon. Might as well share the first part of the saga now.

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8 months with #1

Let me back up. I’m a very athletic person. I grew up dancing (ballet/tap/jazz) and have always been in good shape. During my pregnancy with baby #1, I gained 35 pounds (which was more than the 25 I had hoped to stick to). Baby #1 weighed 8 pounds 4 ounces. I jogged and jogged and jogged after he was born to get all the weight off. Took about eight months. Those last 5-10 pounds were very stubborn. (I later figured out that my body just likes to hold onto a few pounds while I’m breastfeeding.) But even with all the weight off, my stomach was not back to normal. It was still…smooshy. So I kept jogging. When baby #1 was 15 months old, I got pregnant with #2 and at least had a reason to look poochy.

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10 days before due date with #2

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10 days before due date with #2

With baby #2, I was determined to gain no more than 25 pounds. And I didn’t. Baby #2 weighed 7 pounds 12 ounces. I was determined to get my body back ASAP. I felt huge! My mid-section was a mess. After she was born, I ate a low-fat diet and immediately started jogging again. I was also breastfeeding, as I had done with baby #1. My blood sugar went CRAZY. I tend toward hypoglycemia (low blood sugar), and it was kicking into high gear so to speak. My blood sugar would often get too low and I’d be shaking and breaking into a cold sweat. I even gained a few pounds, to add insult to injury. My baby actually lost weight from one checkup to the next, so her doctor told me to eat more calorie-dense foods…not what I wanted to hear since I was trying to lose the baby weight. I reluctantly gave up jogging as I was forced to accept that my body just couldn’t handle it. That helped a bit with the blood sugar levels at that point. However, later I realized the blood sugar issue was a result of needing more fat in my diet in order for my body to support my normal body function, breastfeeding, and heavy exercise. I basically put my body into emergency mode to hold onto all the fat it could for milk production. You can read more about healthy dietary fat in this post.

People just kept telling me I needed to eat less and exercise more in order to get my body back to normal. NO! NO! NO! Though that may be the answer for some (most?) people, it was definitely not the answer for me.

At that point, I decided that if I couldn’t work on dropping weight, I’d try and work on the muscle tone of my abs, since that was obviously thrashed. So I started doing sit-ups and a few other ab exercises very religiously but with VERY LITTLE results. I hated the way I looked and people asked me fairly often (at least it felt that way) about when I was due or if I was pregnant. Sigh. (Sidenote: NEVER ask a woman if she’s pregnant. All you’re going to do is make her feel fat, even if she is pregnant.)

I felt alone, ashamed, embarrassed and hopeless. What’s wrong with me??? Why can’t I get it together? And every time someone asked me if I was pregnant, it was like a knife to my heart.

When baby #2 was 11 months old, I met with a personal trainer to get professional help fixing my body. He told me that if I could do the workouts 3 times a week, then I should start seeing some good results in a couple months. Hope was restored, and to the gym I went. Faithfully. After a couple months, I definitely saw some improvement (thank goodness!), but not nearly what I had hoped for. I was starting to get some definition on the very upper abs (like a two-pack…ha!) but those lower abs were just stubborn, stubborn, stubborn. Still poochy.

(On a side note…in France, doctors can prescribe and the national health insurance plan actually covers “abdominal re-education”…basically, postpartum physical therapy to help you get your abs back to normal. I learned that when I read Bringing Up Bebe. Hmmm….)

Back to my story. Along the way, my husband kept telling me, “I think something is wrong.” I had several thoughts/reactions to that: 1) That’s just a cop-out; if I work harder and keep at it, eventually I’ll see results (though it’s taking FOREVER). 2) Something is wrong with me for not being able to conquer this issue. 3) My husband doesn’t understand what I’m going through and doesn’t have any confidence in me. 4) If something is physically wrong, what on earth could it be?diastasis-recti-2

When baby #2 was 16 months old (5 months after meeting with the personal trainer), I finally got so desperate from the lack of significant results that I decided to do some research to see if there might actually be something physically wrong with me. I had lost all of the baby weight and my body fat percentage was super-low…yet I still looked pregnant. I had no idea what I was even looking for. I ended up Googling “abdominal pregnancy injury” to see what I could come up with. I ended up finding information on a condition called diastasis resti–aka abdominal split. I had never heard of this, and no one else seems to have heard of this. I think a lot of other people probably struggle with this unknowingly, which is why I really wanted to write this post.

Basically, during pregnancy (or with obesity), your abs can split apart down the middle and after baby is born you are left with a bulging belly and still look pregnant. I read somewhere that 95% of the time, your abs will naturally heal back together after the baby is born. I happen to be one of the lucky 5% that didn’t heal. I did the little test to check if my abs were split and discovered that the gap between the two sides of my abs was 3 fingers wide. Although this was bad news, it almost felt like good news in the sense that I could at least identify the problem. [Update March 21, 2013: After reading the books mentioned at the end of this post, I think the problem is much more widespread than this 5% statistic I read somewhere.]

I was happy to learn there are exercises you can do to help your body heal the split. (Click here and here for some video demos.) So hope was again restored (I had slowly been losing heart), and I started working on those exercises. Unfortunately, I also learned that traditional abdominal exercises can make the split worse. ARGH! So I had been killing myself in the gym and potentially making it worse! Somebody shoot me! But you just have to move forward. So I started my new ab routine.

About a month into the new routine, though, I got pregnant with #3 (and therefore once again had a reason to look poochy). It’s been about 5 months since I started the new routine, but there was about a 6-8 week hiatus as we traveled after Thanksgiving and then took a 5-week road trip to California for Christmas. So I’m now 18 weeks (4+ months) pregnant and have been trying to work on the split, knowing that eventually baby #3 will get big enough to make me stop. I finally gave in and stopped working on it about two weeks ago, though I probably should have stopped sooner. I just didn’t want to give up yet. You don’t want to do these exercises and have pressure (such as a baby!) pushing your abs outward. That defeats the purpose. I’ll just have to get back on it after this one is born in August. And though I’ve made a lot of progress on the split, it will probably split back open again with this pregnancy and I’ll lose some or all of the progress I’ve made. But, at least I’ll be starting off from a better place than I would have if I hadn’t done any split repair, and at least I know where to start. Forget the jogging. Fix the abs!

I’ll probably invest in a special splint and/or find a physical therapist experienced with this condition after #3 is born. Surgery is also an option, though one I really want to avoid. Hopefully, I’ll be at a better place emotionally compared to the first two postpartum experiences since I know what I’ll be up against.

Pray for me, if you’re so inclined :)

Update March 21, 2013: After posting this, I read two GREAT books on this subject by a registered nurse named Julie Tupler — Lose Your Mummy Tummy (also a DVD) and Maternal Fitness: Preparing for a Healthy Pregnancy, an Easier Labor, and a Quick Recovery. Every mom and mom-to-be should read these books! Tons of great info and exercises for keeping your body in shape before, during and after pregnancy. Hint: Sit-ups are not the answer and may actually CREATE an abdominal split even when there wasn’t one! As it turns out, you can still do ab exercises while pregnant. You can prevent a split, stop a split from getting worse, or even make a split smaller….even while pregnant! Yay! Now I’ve got some new exercises in my tool belt to fight this problem.

Text Messages Made Me a Better Parent

I’m a type-A personality. I LOVE checking things off a to-do list. There’s something so satisfying about it to me. I realized awhile ago that getting things done was ranking higher on my priority list than giving my kids the focused attention that they need. Not that you have to choose one or the other. It’s a balance….and I was off-balance.

My husband Luke is a software developer. (He co-founded FoxyCart.com.) As a side project, he put together a (beta) system called Track and Remind Me. (Here’s a blogpost that he wrote about the project.) You set up a question that will automatically be text messaged to you, reply with a numerical answer, and log in to see your responses nicely graphed for you. He set me up with a question to help him test the system: “How many minutes of focused attention did you give the kids today?”

At first, getting this text message every night felt like I was being digitally nagged. However, I complied and submitted my responses. In order to submit a response, though, I had to really stop and think about how much focused attention I actually gave my kids that day. Some days looked pretty bleak. It made me sad/embarrassed to submit some pretty low numbers some days. Not that anyone else was seeing those numbers. They were just for me. But it made me realize my priorities needed adjusting.

Basically, it gave me a new sense of awareness. I’d heard numerous times before that you need to track important things to see where you stand…generally in a business kind of sense (like what your bottom line is or how many new customers you’re getting in a month)…but applying that to minutes of focused attention given to my kids was a new concept for me.

I no longer get those nightly text messages, because I learned what I needed to from them. I’m not perfect and I still struggle with the balance of getting things done and giving my kids enough focused attention. But…I’ve come a long way. Knowing is half the battle, as they say.

(Just to be clear, I’m not saying that a mother’s job is to give focused attention to her children all day. That’s not healthy either…for the mother OR for the children. Children need to learn independence and how to entertain themselves.)

So anyway…that’s how text messages made me a better parent.

Eat Fat, Lose Fat: Sound Like a Diet You Could Follow? (Book Commentary)

EatFatLoseFatI read a great book last summer (August 2012) called Eat Fat, Lose Fat: The Healthy Alternative to Trans Fats. It is written by Mary Enig and Sally Fallon, co-founders of the Weston A. Price Foundation. Mary Enig’s research on fats and her pushing for improved labeling regarding trans fats led to our US nutrition labels now including trans fat info. I’d like to share with you some of the things I highlighted as I was reading this book. It may feel a little disjointed as I jump from one idea to the next, but work with me :)

The concepts in this book totally go against what our government agencies say about saturated fats in our diet. The government tells us that saturated fats are bad and will lead to heart disease and other serious health conditions. This book argues that certain saturated fats are good for you and can actually protect you against those health conditions: “Healthy fats include omega-3 fatty acids (found in cod-liver oil, egg yolks, and flax oil), medium-chain fats (found in coconut oil, palm kernel oil, and butter), and long-chain saturated fats (found mostly in meat and dairy products). They’ll help you lose weight, increase your energy, boost your immunity to illness, and optimize your digestion.”

Look at the French population for example…a people known for their rich food, notably butter and all kinds of cheeses. Yet, the obesity rate in France is only 9.4% compared to the United States at 30.6%. Hmm….

This quote really stood out to me: “Although most people don’t realize it, obesity is actually a symptom of nutritional deficiencies. …The higher the nutrient content of your food, the less you need to eat to satisfy your basic nutritional needs.” For example, if you’re not getting enough healthy fats in your diet, guess what? You crave fatty foods, which leads to snacking on junk food. Of course, junk food doesn’t supply what your body needs, so you’re still left craving more…even though you just packed away several hundred empty calories (not to mention all the chemical additives and preservatives).

One of the big points the authors made (hence the book title) was that eating the right kinds of fats will help you lose excess weight. Specifically, the body burns medium chain fatty acids (examples mentioned above), rather than storing them. Burning fat sounds much better than storing fat on your tummy and thighs, doesn’t it??? Sounds good to me! For additional references to support this concept, check out the Wikipedia entry on medium-chain triglyceride, specifically sources #2-7.

My body tends toward hypoglycemia — low blood sugar. This book says, ”People with dry skin are often hypoglycemic and crave sugar because they are eating a diet that’s high in carbohydrates but deficient in good-quality fat.” I used to crave carbohydrates and sugar as my body was constantly trying to get my blood sugar up. Eating smaller meals more often helped to regulate my blood sugar, but I would still have problems here and there (getting shaky, lightheaded, breaking out in a sweat). Having enough healthy fat in my diet has really helped regulate my blood sugar.

After my daughter was born (April 2011), I was REALLY having a lot of problems with my blood sugar. During my pregnancy, I was determined to gain no more than 25 pounds (and I didn’t). After she was born, I was determined to lose the baby weight more quickly than I had with baby #1. I was breastfeeding, eating a low-fat diet and trying to jog off the baby weight. My blood sugar went CRAZY. It was constantly falling too low, leaving me feeling shaky and on the verge of passing out. I even gained a few pounds. What?!? I therefore reluctantly gave up jogging. More than a year later, I read this book and gained so much hindsight into what was really going on with my body at that time. I just wasn’t getting enough fat in my diet to support my own body’s needs, milk production and heavy exercising.

Eat Fat, Lose Fat includes the following summary of how to eat a healthy diet. Other books I’ve read (such as Nourishing Traditions and The Maker’s Diet) support these same ideas (with a few disagreements on things like pork and shellfish):

Eat whole, unprocessed foods. Eat beef, lamb, game, organ meats, poultry, and eggs from pasture-fed animals. Eat wild (not farm-raised) fish, shellfish, and fish roe from unpolluted waters. Eat full-fat milk products from pasture-fed cows, preferably raw and/ or fermented, such as raw milk, whole yogurt, kefir, cultured butter, whole raw cheeses, and fresh and sour cream. Use animal fats, especially butter, liberally. Use traditional vegetable oils only—extra-virgin olive oil, expeller-expressed sesame oil, small amounts of expeller-expressed flax oil, and the tropical oils—coconut oil and palm oil. Eat fresh fruits and vegetables—preferably organic—in salads and soups, or lightly steamed with butter. Use whole grains, legumes, and nuts that have been prepared by soaking, sprouting, or sour leavening. Include enzyme-enhanced lacto-fermented vegetables, fruits, beverages, and condiments in your diet on a regular basis. Prepare homemade meat stocks from the bones of chicken, beef, lamb, and fish and use liberally in soups, stews, and sauces. Use filtered water for cooking and drinking. Use unrefined salt and a variety of herbs and spices for food interest and appetite stimulation. Make your own salad dressing using raw vinegar and natural, traditional oils. Use natural sweeteners in moderation, such as raw honey, maple syrup, date sugar, coconut sugar, dehydrated cane sugar juice (sold as Rapadura or sucanat), and stevia powder. If you drink alcohol, use only unpasteurized wine or beer very moderately with meals. Cook only in stainless-steel, cast-iron, glass, or good-quality enamel—don’t use aluminum cookware. Do not use a microwave oven.

The authors bring up an important point about processed foods. They’re bad for you for numerous reasons, but misleading labeling can make you think the product is healthier than it actually is. For example, “Nearly all [processed food] contains MSG, even though the label may not say so. In fact, if the label lists ‘spices,’ ‘flavorings,’ ‘natural flavorings,’ citric acid, or anything ‘hydrolyzed’ or ‘autolyzed,’ the food probably contains MSG.”

Since a family member of mine recently had a medical test result that showed reason for potential concern about her liver (it turned out to be nothing), I picked up on these statements regarding the liver: “Fructose in fruit juices and anything sweetened with high-fructose corn syrup are very damaging to the liver because all fructose must be processed in the liver. …Animal studies carried out during the 1990s at the U.S. Department of Agriculture revealed that animals fed diets high in fructose suffered damage to their livers similar to that produced by diets high in alcohol. Anyone with an autoimmune disease (or any condition associated with poor liver function) should avoid these substances. (By contrast, saturated fats support liver function.)”
Anyway….a good read. Check it out.

Infant Potty Training, Including a Method ANYONE Can Handle

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I came across some information on “elimination communication” (or “EC”) while researching cloth diapers before our first child was born. It intrigued me. Then I met some people who had successfully done it. They had potty-trained their kids by about 12 months old. They pointed me to two great books on the subject (The Diaper Free Baby by Christine Gross-Loh and Infant Potty Training by Laurie Boucke), and after reading those, I said, “Why not? Let’s give this a shot!” And so began the journey.

I usually get very extreme reactions when discussing this subject. People either love the idea or say it’s impossible. I don’t bring it up much in conversation anymore, unless I anticipate the other person will react positively, because the potential hostility just isn’t worth it to me. When I started this journey, I anticipated that people would think I was a little (or a lot) weird. I did not anticipate, however, that some people would practically sneer at me while telling me it can’t be done. (So here’s a heads-up on that for anyone who wants to give it a go.)

We can easily get caught up in the status quo around us and think the rest of the world does things the same way we do. In Laurie Boucke’s book on infant potty training, she discusses potty training methods around the world (in addition to the how-tos of infant potty training). It’s great to get some outside perspective and learn from other cultures and simply realize that there are other ways of doing things that may be better than what you see around you. Great food for thought, if nothing else.

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Devon 2 months

The real question is…does it work? The short answer is yes. The long answer is that the results depend on the individual child, the personality of the parent and the amount of effort/focus put into it…as with any potty-training method.

I’m not an expert on this stuff. I can only tell you what I’ve read and what I’ve experienced with my own kids.

As I mentioned above, I started potty training my kids when they were each 10 days old. How do you get a 10-day-old to go potty? Well, as most any parent can tell you, you generally just take off their diaper and they’ll start to go when that cool air hits them. Rather than fighting against that reaction by covering baby back up with a diaper, you just anticipate that they’ll want to go and get it in the potty instead of a diaper. At 10 days old, the “potty” I used for my kids was a sturdy bowl that I would hold them over (the purple thing behind my son in the pic at right). With my first child, my son Devon, the very first time I held him over the bowl and said “Pssss” to cue him…he went. Even after reading two books that told me it was possible, I must say that I was still pleasantly surprised that my newborn just peed in a bowl for me. And with that….I was hooked on the idea.

Devon 15.5 months

Devon 15.5 months

Was Devon fully potty-trained while still an infant? No. But about 60-70% of his business was going in the potty versus diapers by around age 4-6 months. (I actually tracked it to see our success rate.) I first put him in underwear (for a few hours at a time) at about 15 months old, and he would keep them dry for several hours, going potty about every half hour. The key thing missing was for him to consistently tell us when he needed to go versus just going whenever we took him. That piece fell into place at 26 months. I had hoped it would be sooner, but I can’t complain. 26 months is still pretty good for a boy (at least in the US). In the meantime, we avoided a whole lot of dirty diapers. It took all the way to age 3.5 to get consistent nighttime dryness, because this boy sleeps like a LOG. Seriously.

Potty training with baby #2, our daughter Aria, has looked quite different. She’s #2, so I couldn’t spend as much time on pottying as I did with Devon. Mostly, I put her on the potty upon waking, before sleeping, at diaper change time, before meals, if we’re out somewhere and big brother needs to go, and if I happen to get to it

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Aria 16.5 months

any other time I think she might need to go. I also did several diaper-free spurts along the way (a couple days at a time) to test out her readiness for moving forward in pottying. At 14.5 months, she began telling us sometimes when she needed to potty. At 17 months, she was doing fabulously and getting most of her stuff in the potty. However, then she started teething on all her canines and molars and pottying went out the window almost entirely. We started getting back on track around 19 months, but then we left on a 5-week road trip and had to put it on pause again. Aria is now 21 months and as long as I leave her completely bottomless (no diaper/underwear/pants), she goes on her little potty all by herself pretty much every time. Of course, going bottomless can only be done at home :) So we’re not done with her yet, but things are looking good.

If you want to give infant potty training a try, I highly recommend it. Read the books I referenced above to get lots of info, perspective, reasons, etc. It can be labor intensive if you go full-force, but ANYONE can handle the method I’ve used with Aria. It basically gets baby comfortable right from the get-go with the idea of going potty (outside of diapers), gets them started on it prior to hitting the age of defiance, saves diapers, helps prevent diaper rash, teaches them that the potty is not a scary thing, etc, etc, etc.

Want to try it but have questions? Or…Think I’m crazy? Leave me a comment!

We Survived (and Enjoyed!) a Very Long Road Trip with Two Small Children

Everyone told us we were either crazy or very brave. For Christmas this year, instead of flying like we normally do, we decided to road trip from Tennessee to California and back. How many miles is that, you ask? Over 2000 (one way). About 30+ hours (one way) if you drive it straight. Our kids are 3 and a half and 1 and a half. Yep.100_3467100_3468

Here was my strategy: Do fun stuff in the mornings (kid-friendly museums, etc.), eat lunch, then drive about 4 to 4.5 hours to our next destination, eat dinner and relax. This way, we all (especially the kids) burn off energy and have something fun to do before getting in the car. We get in the car and baby girl takes her afternoon nap and big brother may or may not nap, but there’s always toys and the iPad for entertainment.

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Albuquerque Aquarium

This strategy worked out really well. Overall, the drive out to CA went much more smoothly than the drive back, primarily because it worked out to stick to the strategy. We took I-40 and good places to stop were pretty nicely spaced at 4 to 4.5 hours apart (see our destination cities below). I researched ahead of time the attractions to hit at each destination. We took 9 days driving out there — 8 days driving, plus an extra day in Vegas just for fun (so much to see and hubby had  never been before). Every day, my daughter Aria took her afternoon nap (sometimes short, sometimes long), and quite often my son Devon also took a nap. Devon kept telling us as we drove that he was so excited to take our long road trip.

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Hoover Dam

Some of the fun things we did along the way: Memphis Fire Museum, Oklahoma City Science Museum (I HIGHLY recommend), RV Museum in Amarillo, Albuquerque  Aquarium and Botanical Gardens, and of course Las Vegas. We all had a great time and were happy to make it to my parents’ house in California.

After 2.5 weeks in California visiting family and friends, we started the long journey back via I-10, again taking 9 days — 8 days driving, plus an extra day in San Antonio. Unfortunately, the return trip went less smoothly. It just did not work out to stick to our 4-hour travel strategy. We really wanted to stop in Phoenix to visit my husband’s aunt (whom we hadn’t seen since 2007), uncle (whom I had never met) and grandma (whom we hadn’t seen since our wedding in 2004). Well….it was a 6-hour drive to get to Phoenix (way beyond the 4-hour target) and then we had to do another 6-hour drive the next day to get back on track for our 9-day trip length. It was precious to visit family in Phoenix, but starting off our trip with two very long days was quite rough. Let me tell you, there is a HUGE difference between a 4-hour drive and a 6-hour drive when you have two small children. (Even if you’re an adult like me who has never really been a road-trip fan.) A 6-hour drive easily becomes an 8- or 9-hour journey with plenty of meltdowns and lots of extra potty breaks just to have an excuse to get out of the car for a few minutes.

Anyways…after two very long driving days, then we hit the wasteland of west Texas (sorry, my Texas friends). I had always heard that driving through Texas was so boring/miserable. Now I can say from experience that it’s true….at least from El Paso to San Antonio (about 7.5 hours of driving). There is absolutely NOTHING in between. You can easily drive over an hour without seeing a single restaurant, gas station, rest area, or even a billboard. NOTHING. You better have snacks in the car and hope you don’t need to go to the bathroom. Sheesh! And boring as anything. Once we hit San Antonio, though, we were back in civilization and the rest of Texas was fine.

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San Antonio Riverwalk

Also for the return trip, I didn’t have attractions at each destination as well-planned. At three of our stops, I didn’t have anything planned for us to do (and in the case of Fort Stockton, there was nothing to do anyways), so we just hit the road early. Especially at the end of the trip, we were just worn out and wanted to get home. But skipping the morning attractions meant we were JUST in the car, which meant the kids (and I) were cranky.

Highlights of the return trip: family in Phoenix, San Antonio (in general and including the Riverwalk), the food in Louisiana (gumbo, jambalaya and crawfish etoufee…yum!), and finally returning home to our own house/beds/etc.

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Boomtown Museum

So did you notice above that I said I was never really a road-trip fan? You may be wondering if my husband thought up this trip. Nope. My idea. Why? We’ve been trying to take advantage of the fact that my husband now works for himself and can work anywhere as long as he has internet and his laptop. (For this trip, the plan was for me to do the majority of the driving while he got work done…getting Internet for his laptop via tethering to his cell phone.) I created the aforementioned strategy and hoped that it would work out as well in practice as it did in theory. Four hours in the car, I can handle. ALL DAY in the car….I get very cranky. I had never done a cross-country trip like this, so it was a great opportunity to do it the way I wanted to–slowly, without having to worry about vacation days and requesting time off. Who knows how long we’ll have this freedom, so we better use it while we have it. We already had money set aside for airfare to California, so I figured we could instead use that money to cover gas, hotels, food and entertainment along the way and enjoy seeing the sights.

To summarize: Awesome trip. Tons of cool memories made. Got to see a huge portion of our country. Would definitely do it again. In fact, we’ve got more destinations in mind already (like upstate New York and New Jersey). The 4-hour driving strategy worked really well, so we would love to be able to stick to that for future trips if at all possible.

Our Stops – Nashville to California
  • Memphis, TN
  • Fort Smith, AR
  • Oklahoma City, OK
  • Amarillo, TX
  • Albuquerque, NM
  • Flagstaff, AZ
  • Las Vegas, NV
  • Oxnard, CA (my parents’ house)
Our Stops – California to Nashville
  • Phoenix, AZ
  • Las Cruces, NM
  • Fort Stockton, TX
  • San Antonio, TX
  • Beaumont, TX
  • New Orleans, LA
  • Montgomery, AL
  • Nashville, TN (home)