While pregnant with my first child, I did a lot of research on cloth diapers. The idea of throwing thousands of disposable diapers into a landfill and having those diapers sit there for eternity…well….let’s just say the environmentalist in me couldn’t stand the thought. Of course, there are myriad other benefits as well–cost, baby’s health, etc., but I’ll cover that in another post.
In doing my research, I found the amount of information out there can be overwhelming (and sometimes even conflicting), and it can be a very time-consuming process to dig through it all and figure out how to make cloth diapering work for you. Not everyone has the time to figure it all out. So, I put together this post to hopefully make it easier for you to actually do it. It’s basically a summary of my research and links to where I actually purchased everything I needed. Bear with me for the long post, but I wanted this to be a useful how-to guide.
Diapers
You can do cloth diapers many different ways, depending on how much you want to spend and what seems easiest to you. Prefolds with covers and washing at home is the cheapest way to go. If you want to spend a lot more, you can get all-in-one diapers, which are basically the cloth diapers with covers attached, so it’s as easy as putting a disposable on. The all-in-one diapers are pricey (say $18 each), and you have to have enough of them to get you through at least two days if you want to do laundry every other day. I opted for prefolds with covers.
The infant size prefold works for babies up to about 15 pounds (approximately 3-6 months). Then you move up to the next size. With 36 diapers, you need to do a washload about every 2-3 days, keeping in mind that you have to have enough clean diapers out of the wash to last you through the time it takes to do the load of laundry (which is a little while as you’ll see when I explain about the washing below). By the way, there are Chinese prefolds and Indian prefolds. Indian prefolds are softer but Chinese prefolds are more durable. I chose Chinese for durability and they are soft enough for me. By the way, cloth diapers you find at Babies R Us or Target are pretty worthless from what I’ve read online. (I haven’t purchased any myself.) Good for burp cloths only, but not thick enough for diapering.
The website that I use for my prefolds is alpinebabyhub.com
Some friends of mine also recommend Cloth-eez prefolds from greenmountaindiapers.com
Covers
There are different types of diaper covers (fleece, wool, polyurethane…). The polyurethane ones seem like the most hassle-free and the most waterproof to me, so that’s what I bought. There are sized covers (XS, S, M, L, XL) as well as one-size covers (which have snaps to adjust the size up and down so that you can use the cover all the way from infant to toddler). I opted for sized covers, because I wasn’t sure if the one-size covers would fit as well. I tried to go straight for size small and skip the newborn size since baby #1 weighed 8 pounds 4 ounces at birth, but that didn’t work. Small was too big, so I had to go back and buy the infant/x-small size. I bought 4, but 6 would have been nice. You need multiples for when poop gets on the cover and you need to wash it before using again. I bought a couple Thirsties brand, a ProRap one, and a Bummis in the infant/x-small size. I’ve decided ProRaps are my favorite. They are the cheapest of the ones I found and they work really well. The Thirsties ones seem to take a long time to dry out. The Bummis ones are fine, but they have a flap on the inside front that helps hold the cloth prefold in place, which seems unnecessary and it takes a little bit longer to get the diaper on baby. We now use ProRaps almost exclusively. By the way, ProRaps Colors are completely different from Classic ProRaps (which are white). I recommend the classic white ones over the colored ones for the sake of durability. I do have 1 one-size cover now which I like. We’ll see if it’s durable enough to last through all the stages that it will fit through.
The website I use for diaper covers is nickisdiapers.com
I love that Nicki’s Diapers has free shipping on all diaper covers and on orders over $75. They also carry lots of different brands. When you’re starting off, it’s nice to buy several different brand covers so you can see what you like best and what works best for your baby.
Diaper Pail and Liner
For a diaper pail, I bought a large kitchen trash can with lid (Sterilite 13 gallon from Walmart). I originally bought a Mommy’s Touch Diaper Pail Liner, but it was coming to pieces after 8 months. I made it work til 12 months, because I didn’t want to spend the money to buy another one. I finally gave in and tried a different brand — Blueberry — which was a few dollars more ($20-$24). After more than two years, it’s holding up GREAT….so I would highly recommend a Blueberry one. You can purchase from the Blueberry website. Or, you can purchase through Amazon and combine it with another item to get free super-saver shipping. The Nicki’s Diapers website linked to above also has diaper pail liners, but I can’t comment on them since I haven’t tried them.
Baby Wipes
When using cloth diapers, you might as well use cloth baby wipes also. I originally bought 45 wipes. This number worked well for me. I usually use one wipe per diaper change. Â You may want to order more if you use multiple wipes per change. When I had my second child, I purchased another 30 wipes (plus extra diapers) just so I wouldn’t have to do laundry quite as often. Anyway, you can get flannel wipes at the Nicki’s Diapers site for $10.50 for 15 wipes.
When using your cloth wipes, you can make your own wipe solution to moisten the wipes. They sell pre-made solution, but it’s so easy and cheap to make your own. There are more complicated recipes you can find online that use essential oils, but the basic recipe is:
1/4 cup oil (olive oil, almond oil, etc)
1/4 cup baby wash/shampoo
1 cup water
Pour these into a spray/squeeze bottle in this order (the oil makes the baby wash slide right out of the measuring cup) and shake to mix. Voila! Squeeze/spray on a wipe right before using.
On the Go
You can buy a wet bag for on-the-go. A wet bag is a little mini waterproof bag to put in your baby’s diaper bag for dirty cloth diapers (or wet clothes). I bought a Mommy’s Touch wet bag through Amazon.com, but you can also get wet bags through Nicki’s Diapers or Babies R Us. (By the way, if you’re interested in cloth diapers, but the idea of cloth diapering when you’re on-the-go doesn’t appeal to you…..one option is to do cloth at home and disposables while you’re out.)
For wipes, you can buy a travel wipe case, fill it with cloth baby wipes and then add enough baby wipe solution to moisten them so they’re ready to use.
Washing Diapers
There are two methods for handling dirty diapers — the “dry pail” method and the “wet pail” method. With the “dry pail” method (my chosen method), there’s no need to rinse out dirty diapers prior to washing. Just throw the soiled diaper into the diaper pail and sprinkle some baking soda in. The “wet pail” method seems way too messy and totally unnecessary to me. It means you throw soiled diapers into a diaper pail full of water. It typically also means that you rinse out the diapers before putting them in the pail. Um…no thanks.
When your baby gets older and starts eating solid foods, the poop becomes more solid. At this point, you’ll want to start dumping the solids into the toilet before putting the diaper in the pail and sprinkling baking soda on it. You may want to use diaper liners, disposable things you lay on top of the diaper to catch the poop and then lift it off into the toilet. I haven’t used those, but they exist.
You’ll need to wash diapers every 2-3 days. The diapers, covers and diaper pail liner all go into the washing machine. Run a cycle on cold with an extra rinse and no detergent. (This helps rinse out the initial gunk and the cold water helps prevent stains.) Then run another cycle on hot with detergent and an extra rinse cycle. Dry on high for an hour and a half. You need that long for the diapers to dry and to help sanitize the diapers. Washing and drying takes me about 3 and a half hours. To help with stains, I add 1/4 to 1/2 cup each of vinegar and baking soda to the load on the hot wash cycle. That seems to really help. Also…when throwing dirty diapers into the diaper pail, I sprinkle some baking soda into the pail. This helps with odors and also helps with the stains.
It is very highly recommended that you use special detergent for your cloth diapers. This is to make sure that the cloth diapers don’t irritate baby’s skin AND so that you don’t harm the cloth diapers. Certain detergent additives can actually make your diapers water RESISTANT rather than absorbent. Several websites list a bunch of different detergent brands and rate them for cloth diaper washing. Since the websites disagree on some of the detergents, I just tried to find one that everyone agreed on. I ended up ordering a 10-pound box of Country Save detergent online. We have a high-efficiency washer and that first box of detergent lasted 8 months. I bought it at countrysave.com
They now offer 5lb boxes for $9.99 with free shipping.
How Much Will This Cost?
Here’s a rough estimate of what cloth diapering (with prefolds and sized covers) cost me for the first 3-6 months:
3 dozen infant size prefolds: $33
4 newborn covers: $36
4 small covers: $36
Diaper pail: $10
Diaper pail liner: $20
Wet bag: $10
Cloth wipes: $32
Detergent: $10
Spray bottle: $1
Baby wipe solution: $15
Total: $203 (plus some shipping charges and extra costs on my water/electric bills for laundering)
After the initial 3-6 months, your costs will include bigger prefolds and bigger covers, detergent, wipe solution, and the additional costs for your water and electric bills (which are minimal, especially if you have an HE washer and dryer like I do). Keep in mind also that you can use all these items on subsequent children and multiply your savings 🙂
Phew! Thanks for sticking around to the end of this post. I hope it was useful to you. If you have any questions, helpful suggestions for others interested in cloth diapering, or a go-to website for your cloth diapering needs, please leave me a comment.
If you know someone who might be interested in cloth diapers, please send them to this post to get some info and hopefully save them some time 🙂